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#16972 - 05/29/08 05:37 AM 5 yo with AS voted out of class
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#16973 - 05/29/08 05:38 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Lorel]
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It made me cry. That teacher should lose her job. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but how can you possibly justify treating a child in this manner?
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#16974 - 05/29/08 05:44 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Lorel]
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I'm appalled. I don't even know what to say. I'm just...appalled!

School as a popularity contest run by the teacher? Um, no. Just no.

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#16975 - 05/29/08 06:13 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Lorel]
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Oh my - that is so incredibly sad! Just because a child doesn't fit a particular mold they should be set up as a target by a paid professional? Unbelievable. That teacher should definitely lose her job. Poor little boy.

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#16976 - 05/29/08 06:31 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: kimck]
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Really! He's 5! What was she thinking.

I'd love to hear her side of things because I can't even imagine how an adult could think this was a good idea. Even if he didn't have AS--and it's beyond unconscionable to treat a child with AS like this!--I can't imagine thinking that you're doing anyone any good with this sort of action.

It sounds like she'd just had it with him, and she lashed out. But what an awful way to lash out! Just rotten.

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#16977 - 05/29/08 06:35 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Kriston]
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Now is this the same case that was in the news yesterday morning where the parents put a tape recorder in the kid's pants and heard the bad things the teacher said to the kid? This teacher also shamed the kid in front of the class but in the interview, no voting out was mentioned and they didn't mention AS. The case I'm referring to happened in NYC I think.

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#16978 - 05/29/08 06:45 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Dazed&Confuzed]
Kriston Offline
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This one is in FL, if I'm reading the article correctly. I didn't hear about the NYC case.

Two cases? Geez! What's with these people? Time for summer, I guess!

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#16979 - 05/29/08 06:46 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Kriston]
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The teacher in NYC was suspended if I remember correctly pending an investigation. The tape recorder is pretty da&*(&ing.

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#16981 - 05/29/08 08:16 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Lorel]
Lori H. Offline
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I saw this yesterday and it really, really bothered me. My son is older now and he handles adult bullies like this teacher better than he did at that age. His first experience with an adult bully was in a gymnastics class at age 5. I could tell that the new teacher didn't like the way he talked--he talked like a geek even at 5--and she didn't like the fact that he took longer to do the activities and when he flopped to the floor when he landed in a very uncoordinated manner. The previous teacher thought it was cute the way he talked and she always asked him to go look at the clock and tell her what time it was because none of the other kids in the class knew how to tell time. He really liked her and she seemed to like him. He was heartbroken when the new gymnastics instructor gave all the other kids a sticker as a reward for doing well and then told him that he didn't get one because he didn't do well enough in front of everyone. I had already told the owner of the gymnastics class about his hypotonia and I am sure the instructor knew about it also, but she didn't care. I walked out that day after telling the owner that I would not be back and why. It still upsets me to think about it. I think that probably nothing was said to the instructor. People in the sports obsessed community where we live think nothing of verbally abusing kids like mine. Even the musical theatre teacher used to verbally abuse him in front of his friends even though she knew about the hypotonia, until he stood up to her, looked her straight in the eye and calmly and firmly said something back to her that I didn't think sounded disrespectful, but definitely let her know that he would not tolerate it any more. She didn't know I was listening. I was so proud of him that day and I told him so. I told him that he has the right to protect himself from verbal bullies whether they are adults or not.

He didn't want me to say anything last year to the YMCA swimming instructor who called him a wuss and I respected that. He said he was okay but that he didn't want to take swimming lessons from anyone who was going to be condescending toward him, so we stopped going there too. It seems there is no place for us except on online message boards. I have found that there are a lot of not very nice people around here, even among the homeschoolers. I see the world from a completely different perspective now than I did as the mom of a pretty cheerleader.



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#16982 - 05/29/08 08:16 AM Re: 5 yo with AS voted out of class [Re: Dazed&Confuzed]
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